Subs
Published: Estimated Reading Time: ~1 minutes
Rules for bottoms/subs/sissies/pornosexuals
Rule 1. Be a sub, not a doormat.
- Your job is NOT to say yes to everything. Your job is to communicate your needs, say “no” to things you don’t want, or hurt (in a non-fun way) or are outside of your boundaries or safety zone.
- You can also say “I don’t know” or “Tell me more” or “explain that to me.” (it turns me ON to hear those words!)
- When playing irl, use your safewords (see below).
Rule 2. Don’t ghost.
I expect replies within 48 hours of me sending you a message.
The response can be “I need more time” or “busy”. I’ll understand.
Of course, if you tell me in advance that you’ll be away or without internet access, that’s fine too.
NOTE: “I couldn’t get away to reply” is unexceptable. I can not believe that you couldn’t find 2 minutes alone to start up the Discord/Fetlife/Signal app, type “busy” and press RETURN. I get it… you’re not out to your family/partner/god/FSM/pets/whatever and I respect your need for privacy but be real.