Meeting

rules for tops/dom/dommes

this goes for tops, dom, dommes.

rule 1. be a fucking top.

• you pick the time and place we’re going to meet.
• i might say no or negotiate a different time, but i’m the fucking sub so have some fucking balls (or ovaries) and make a fucking decision. there’s nothing more annoying than an “experienced top” that can’t make a fucking decision.

rule 2. fantasy versus reality.

• i assume any desire you express is a fantasy and not what you are interested in doing in real life.
• if there is something you want to do in real life, tell me outside of online play. for example, if you say you want to force me to pleasure your buddies on a weekend sex vacation in vegas… that’s totally hot! however i’ll assume that’s a fantasy, not something you can actually organize until you tell me.
• if we have a side conversion where you tell me it is something you actually want to do, then i will make it a reality. that’s what i do. i make fantasies happen irl.

rule 3. safe sex.

• i play safe and expect you to do so too. know your boundaries and communicate them to me. i will do the same.
• if you don’t know your boundaries i can help you figure them out. that’s called negotiation. i’m happy to explain various risks and safety practices. i love to answer questions!

rule 4. safewords.

• unless we negotiate otherwise, my safewords are “red” (stop), “yellow” (slow down), and “green” (faster/harder).
• i find it super sexy if you have different words you’d like to use. ask me.